Moving your toddler from a crib to a big kid bed can be an emotional and exciting step for both parents and children. While it is an inevitable milestone, it is also a significant change that can be unsettling for toddlers. Fortunately, there are several strategies and tips parents can use to help their toddlers adjust to a new sleeping environment comfortably. In this article, we will outline some practical tips and advice that parents can follow to make the transition from a crib to a big kid bed as smooth as possible.
First things first, is your toddler ready to make the transition for the crib to the bed.
Look before you leap is a favorite saying of mine. Nicole next door shares that she moved her daughter to a big kid bed when they were 18 months and your sister-in-law Amy swears by keeping little ones in their cribs until they can’t fit anymore. There is so much conflicting information on the internet around this subject so I thought I would first share key things to consider when transitioning a toddler from a crib to a bed.
Here are my best tips that parents can consider while moving their toddler from a crib to a big kid bed:
- Timing is everything. Consider the best time to make the transition. Generally, toddlers move to a bed between 2.5 and 3.5 years old. However, every child is different, and it’s important to watch for signs of readiness, such as showing interest in a big kid bed and you feeling they have the maturity to stay put in their bed (this one is key).
- Safety first. Prioritize your child’s safety now that they could possibly be able to roam. Consider putting up baby gates if the room is not baby-proofed yet. Also, ensure that cords, wires, and other choking hazards are safely out of reach.
- Introduce the idea early: Start talking with your toddler about the upcoming transition from a crib to a big kid bed a few weeks before the actual switch. You can use positive language and a social story to explain how it’s going to be an exciting new adventure for them.
- Choose the right bed: While selecting the bed, consider the safety first. Buy a bed with the rails, so that your child does not fall out of bed. If you are buying a new mattress, you consider purchasing one that will last for many years to come. And be sure to include your little one in on the decision if that feels right. Testing out mattresses may make them feel a little like Goldielocks sans the three bears.
- Create a cozy sleeping space: Along with the bed, add cozy blankets and a stuffed animal or lovey for a comfortable sleep environment. You can also decorate the bed with your toddler’s favorite colors or characters to make it more inviting. Trust me, little kids love picking out bedding. Allowing them some control over their sleep space will make any kiddo feel like a big kid.
- Involve your toddler in the process: Allow your toddler to be an active participant while setting up their big kid bed. You can let them help with assembling the bed, place the pillows, and create a new bedtime routine together.
- Establish a new routine: Ensure that your toddler has a bedtime routine that helps them feel safe and secure in their new big kid bed. This may consist of bedtime stories, quiet time activities such as listening to calm music, or possibly a nightlight (dim and amber in color is my recommendation).
A note of caution when making the transition.
Be patient. Moving a toddler from a crib to a bed is an exciting milestone, but it can also pose some challenges and changes in routine can be tough on young children. One of the biggest challenges is that moving from a crib to a bed can be a significant change, and your child might not always respond positively. Your toddler might feel sad, scared or resist the change, as the crib has been a symbol of safety and comfort for them. Another challenge is that your toddler may get out of bed multiple times during the night, and this can disrupt their sleep and potentially yours. It’s also worth noting that this transition might also impact the bedtime routine in place, which may throw off your child’s sleep schedule temporarily. By being patient and empathetic to these potential challenges, parents can work through any difficulties and make the transition a smooth experience.
Deep Breaths Mommy!
This is an exciting time but also one that may cause you some sadness. Where did your baby go? Weren’t they going through the 4-month sleep regression like 5 minutes ago? It’s at times of transition like these that we need to remember to give ourselves some Grace and allow the feelings (and possible tears) to flow. Yes, your little one is taking a big leap here, but look how far they have come. And you have been there to support them through it every step of the way. Be proud of the little person they have become. Be proud of yourself. You’ve done an amazing job. GO YOU!
So there you have it, my tips and suggestions for hopefully smooth sailing transitioning from a crib to a big kid bed. Good luck and Godspeed. But, if you’ve made the switch and it’s not going so well (cue stall tactics, getting out of bed 100 times at bedtime or somehow your little one has taken you hostage and requires you to stay with them until they are asleep) then now is a good time to book a FREE call with me. I’m an expert at snuffing out stalling and negotiating hostage situations where toddlers are concerned. I’ve got you!
Hi, I’m Jenn. Mom, Sleep Boss, and Finder of Lost Loveys. I have more than 10 years of experience in guiding families from sleep deprived to sleep-revived. I help exhausted families around the globe find the right sleep solutions for their children through one-on-one coaching. Read more about me and my philosophy.
